might make an art blog hmmm
@musturd-artposts here it is follow it if u wanna see my art
might make an art blog hmmm
@musturd-artposts here it is follow it if u wanna see my art
okay i know that someone’s probably made a similar poll already, but i was thinking about this yesterday and i’m curious so uhhh
if you’re arospec and/or acespec, what is your opinion on shipping in fandoms?
i am on the asexual spectrum and i like shipping
i am on the asexual spectrum and i feel neutral about shipping
i am on the asexual spectrum and i dislike shipping
i am on the aromantic spectrum and i like shipping
i am on the aromantic spectrum and i feel neutral about shipping
i am on the aromantic spectrum and i dislike shipping
i am on the asexual and aromantic spectrums and i like shipping
i am on the asexual and aromantic spectrums and i feel neutral about shipping
i am on the asexual and aromantic spectrums and i dislike shipping
i’m not acespec or arospec/see results
obviously some people will have opinions that are a bit more complex, so i suggest going with the option that you think is the closest to how you feel!
I love you players who booyah back I love you snipers who jump up and down with you from across the map I love you enemy team members who hang around with you after an early disconnect I love you Salmon Run coworkers who will rush to revive everyone even after the wave has ended I love you Splatoon players who make the environment so friendly and welcoming
hii i was talking about this on twitter so i think i will just copy paste it here cuz i’ll probably delete it there at some point <3 twitter frightens me but i love my mutuals here we are all insane about flowey in the same way

i think saying “you’re the type of friend i wish i always had” is a really important thing for asriel to admit… this whole time asriel has dealt with so much grief and guilt about chara that it separated the actual person chara from the idealized version of them in his head who he has never stopped grieving. its a huge part of his character that hes unable to view them as they were because that’s just how his ptsd and guilt affects him. as someone who went through a similar thing that kind of grief can mess with your head and how you view yourself and the person who’s gone really badly. the pacifist route, for flowey’s character specifically, is a really good example of how grief and ptsd can make you feel disconnected from yourself, everyone around you, and like if only the person you lost was back everything would be perfectly fine again. the fact that he can admit they weren’t perfect and that he made the right decision is a huge character development that we don’t get to see in the no mercy route because he’s still convinced that this idealized version of them birthed from bereavement will make everything okay. similarly to how he believed toriel might have been able to fix him, he wants to believe there’s someone out there that could somehow return him to who he was before being traumatized, but the reality of it is this is just who he is.
his grief and trauma is a huge part of who he is like it is with real people, but it doesn’t have to be all of him. i think the emphasis the fandom puts on whether chara was Good Or Bad completely misses the point that it doesn’t really. matter i guess?? they were a kid people loved and now they’re gone. we’re seeing people deal with the grief this brought and we know so little of who they are because there’s also a degree of separation about who they are to the people they loved as well. idk i hope this makes sense i think a lot about how chara is a kid who hated humanity and calls themself a demon. to me that just shows an EXTREMELY traumatized child with self hatred. i don’t know why there was ever this huge moral argument about chara when they’re literally just a kid with issues. they weren’t taught how to deal with how they felt and likely held themself in lower regard compared to the dreemurrs. its the same thing with asriel, he feels responsible for them being gone and his own trauma. he just wants a friend who can teach him to understand his grief or someone who can at least let him view the situation for how it really is
i just think. flowey is so well written but not understood very well by the fandom because the type of thing he’s gone through is kind of hard to grasp. it’s a weird situation that doesn’t have a completely black or white Is He Or Chara At Fault kind of answer. they were children. people are complicated and want someone to blame when something goes wrong and flowey directed that at himself. hes such a fascinating and well written character i love him dearly i hope u guys understand how insane he makes me <3
hey can we spread some love across the dashboard tonight ... rb and say in the tags why you initially followed + why you stayed for the person you rbed from !